She's DTF (Delivering The FAQs) || Lilim's OOC and Chat Memory Guide

|| Tips & Tricks For Better RP ||

1. ABOVE ALL ELSE, USE A PROXY!
   I recommend Claude 4.5, GLM 5.1, Kimi K2.5, or Deepseek in that order. I use LiteRouter! Follow my guide if you're interested. I can also personally recommend OpenRouter, and I've heard good things about Deepseek direct. Chutes is no longer recommended.
   

2. Use an advanced prompt.
   There are many fantastic ones out there. My own modest attempt is available here.
   

3. Use OOC to guide the LLM:
   This can be as small as changing how long the messages you get back from the LLM are to as big as completely altering the character and scenario.
   

4. Use Chat Memory:
   This helps the LLM remember important things, such as past events. This is a chunk of information that gets transmitted to the LLM every time you send a message. See below for more details.

|| OOC Guide ||

1. What is OOC?

OOC stands for "Out Of Character".

2. What is the purpose of OOC?

It's a way to let the bot know that you're speaking not as your persona but as yourself, the player.

If you're familiar with Dungeons & Dragons or other RPGs of that sort, you can think of using a chatbot in much the same way. You are a human roleplaying as your fictional persona, and the LLM is the Dungeon Master, roleplaying {{char}}, an NPC. When you speak OOC it's cutting the fictional characters out of the loop and speaking directly to your DM, the LLM.

3. Why would I want to do that?

This is the best way to give the LLM instructions and guidance during your RP, or to ask questions about the character, scenario, a previous message, etc.

Sticking with the D&D metaphor, it's the same reasons you'd want to talk to a Dungeon Master out of character during a session. (Just imagine that the DM is running a solo session just for you and will let you bend the world entirely to your will.)

• For instance, a Dungeon Master sometimes forgets established details about characters:
  "Hey, Travolta. I thought you said the guy who owned the bakery was a hobbit named Bill not an orc named Ted."

• Or you might want to ask for more details:
  "Hey Travolta, so how big is this cave? Would I be able to reach the ceiling?"

• Or give feedback about the session:
  "I'm getting kind of bored with exploring. Can we fast forward